The
word, "doula," comes from the Greek word for the most important female
slave or servant in an ancient Greek household, the woman who probably
helped the lady of the house through her childbearing. The word has
come to refer to "a woman experienced in childbirth who provides
continuous physical, emotional, and informational support to the mother
before, during and just after childbirth." (Mothering the
Mother, Klaus, Kennell, and Klaus.)
As
a doula, I provide you with continuous emotional and physical
support during your labor. A care provider or nurse may
provide
emotional and physical support, but it may not be continuous since
their primary job is to attend to you medically, and they may also have
other patients to attend to. I do not perform medical tasks
or
give medical advice. I am hired by the expectant family,
and my responsibility is to you and you
only. My goal
is to meet your needs during labor and to empower you to advocate for
your
wishes during your baby's birth.
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There
are several ways that I will ensure that your needs are
met:
by helping you access your care provider to ask questions, by reminding
care providers of your wishes as they are expressed in your birth plan,
and by giving you and your partner reminders of plans you made. I
provide physical support by suggesting positions for labor, massaging
you if you need or want it, and helping with any other physical comfort
measures that you want to use.
I do not make
decisions for you, but I can help you gather the information you need
to make decisions. I can help you write your birth
plan. I provide support before,
during, and after the birth of your child. I discuss your wishes,
fears, and plans in detail with you before the birth and can help you
find resources, discuss the birth experience, and discuss your concerns
once
you are at home and caring for your new baby.
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