My interest in childbirth began when I was eight
years old and was present
for the birth of my own brother. I thought it was amazing and that my
mother
was so strong! I saw the birth of my sister four years later. My mother
was a
La Leche League Leader so we received many phone calls from mothers in
need of
support and information.
I went to NC State and studied industrial
engineering but after working in
that field for several years, I found myself engrossed in childbirth
books. I had been
searching to find a career that I
felt more passionate about but instead of seeing the obvious answer
right in
front of me, it took the suggestion of a good friend to discover that
being a
doula would allow me to earn a living doing what I love.
I became certified as a birth doula in 2006 (the
CD in my credentials stands
for Certified Doula) and as a postpartum doula in 2008 (the PCD stands
for
Postpartum Certified Doula) by DONA International, the largest doula
organization in the world. I was also certified as a Hypnobabies®
Childbirth
Hypnosis Instructor (HCHI) and Hypnobabies® Childbirth Hypno-Doula
(HCHD) by the
Hypnobabies Network in 2007. In 2016, I followed in my mother's footsteps and became a La Leche League Leader.
As I began my doula career, I also began my quest
to become a mother
myself. My husband,
Jeff, and I
struggled to conceive and had to rely on assisted reproductive
technology. This
gave me a new insight when working with
clients who had struggled to get pregnant themselves.
That was actually a great benefit to me in
the long run, as was working as a doula without being influenced by my
own
birth experience. I
became proud of the
non-judgmental support I was able to give to my clients.
I finally became a mother in 2011 when my son,
Elliott, was born at
home. Not only was
I able to experience
childbirth using the Hypnobabies method that I had taught for years,
but I was
able to feel the support and love of having my very own birth doula and
many,
many postpartum doulas. I
had an amazing
birth. It was very
smooth, easy, and
comfortable. It was followed by every breastfeeding problem I’ve ever
heard of
(and some I never knew existed). It
was
a whirlwind of an experience but being a parent continues to amaze me. My son is my most precious
treasure.
My goal now is to help other parents feel as
supported and educated as I
felt when I became a parent. When
parents receive those two things – support and information – at such an
important time in their lives, a beautiful confidence develops.
In addition to advanced doula trainings, I
completed Reiki level I and II
trainings in 2010. I have served as a doula at births at most of the
hospitals
in Raleigh, Durham,
and Chapel Hill, as well as the Women's Birth and Wellness
Center, Womack Army Medical Center,
and at clients' homes.
The births I have attended have taught me so much,
and it is always an honor
to be invited to be present at the birth of a child. I love working
with
families and the feeling that I can help make their birth experiences
beautiful.